Love

             My Thoughts

                Love

 

Where do I begin with this… Love, is complicated. If someone asked me to define love as quickly as possible, I wouldn’t be able to. Love has it’s different meanings that vary from person to person and I’m not talking about “loving someone as a partner, friend, etc.” What I mean is that if you love someone romantically, you would show that type of affection in different ways. You would take that person out to the beach, a restaurant, a special place, etc. and that would be your definition of love. You could make a song or a poem for them and that would be your definition of love. All of these showings of love boil down to “Love has it’s different meanings.”

Another reason why I wanted to talk about love was because of its beautiful flaws. “Love is cruel. Yet, it will conquer.” Remember that quote. These flaws include arguments and fights. Every relationship I know has it’s arguments and fights, or at least most relationships. Some relationships don’t and I understand/respect that. What I wanted to say is that arguments ever so often don’t make a relationship unhealthy. It actually improves the relationship because at the end of the argument and after both people have calmed down, they apologize to each other and try to understand each other’s perspective which strengthens the close bond. 

As I said before, “Love is cruel. Yet, it will conquer”. Love is cruel at times with its flaws, arguments and fights. Yet, at the end of the day, both of the people in that relationship will remember that they both Love each other with all of their imperfections. Such imperfections vary from person to person but some are their anxiety, nervousness, shyness, too talkative, too quiet, low self-esteem, high self-esteem and the list goes on. These imperfections add to reasons why their lover loves them and it will conquer.