Relationships

My Thoughts

Relationships

Relationships are beautiful miracles when they're true and lasting. They give us this special feeling, love. Love is something a lot of people want to experience, especially in a relationship. Love is described as this warm and calming feeling going through your veins to your heart, very slowly. It's such a nice feeling. However, there are some scenarios where Love and Relationships can be terrifying. When you're with someone, you have to make sure this person you're with is that person for you, not type. This person can't be your type, they have to be your one. If you're not in a relationship with that person, there will be lots of stress and struggles. Another scary part of relationships is if it will be a toxic relationship. Will they constantly be watching my back? Are they going to stalk me? Are they aggressive to me every time we talk? Do they stress me? If they start to act manipulative and tell you what you can and cannot do or if they straight-up try to make you feel like shit every day. Another thing that is scary about relationships is that you don't know if they will cheat on you or not. You don't know if they will leave you for someone else. Anything can happen at any time, and that's the scariest part about Relationships. In the next two paragraphs, I'm going to talk about these types of relationships and why they can be a big problem for your health.

Now from what I see the main toxic kinds of relationships are that there are mainly three different parts of toxicity in a relationship. The first part is when they see you as something different from what you are. What I mean by this is that they see you as something they want you to be rather than something who you actually are. If your partner sees you as something better and you think of yourself as something worse, that is a different story. They only want you to grow positively, which is a good thing. What I mean by seeing you in a different light is that they see you as a completely different person with a different personality. They have "requirements" that they expect you to fulfill. This is a toxic kind of relationship because they expect you to be something you don't want to be. Then they are the one who ends up starting all of the arguments.

The second type of toxic relationship is the one who is inconsiderate of your feelings. When they are inconsiderate of your emotions, this can lead to emotional distress and a lack of motivation to keep the relationship going. Take for example someone who they talked about something to their partner that they already knew would hurt them and they didn't bother to apologize about it. That person would be intentionally hurting their partner and they would already know that they are, yet they still do it either way. What I mean by this is that this person is completely ignoring your feelings and this would lead to discomfort. Discomfort in a relationship is something that can tear apart a relationship and separates two people from each other. This should be avoided at all costs to protect your relationship.

In conclusion, relationships can be both Calming or Distressing. Beautiful or Depressing. Sweet or Sour. I don't believe all relationships are terrible, but you just have to find the perfect one for you. There's going to be times where the moments feel beautiful and times where moments feel painful. Every relationship will have its ups and downs. Relationships are like Bees. Some moments sting painfully but some moments are as sweet as honey.